Conflict – It is inevitable; whenever you have a relationship with someone, you have conflict at some point. From time to time you will disagree with the people in your life and them with you, you can choose to face it head-on, avoid it, or live your life in such a way that you constantly […]
To Blame Others is a Form of Escape: The symptom of a pattern to interrupt One symptom of being stuck in a pattern is blaming others. When you blame other people, events, and circumstances for your situations, you are bound to continue to repeat your patterns. Blaming others is a form of escape. When you […]
The Magic Pause And The Ego – The best part of the book, Interrupt The Pattern, for me is that it serves as a guide and accountability. You will hear me say time and time again; “I wrote this book not because I arrived and I get it, I wrote it because the content and processes […]
SELF Responsibility – Hold this thought in your mind for a good while, entertain the possibility that you actually chose to be born to the parents you have and that you chose every person and circumstance for your spiritual development. Especially those people who challenge us, in order for us to grow. How does that […]
I Can’t …..and I wonder what it is that keeps me in this space, the space I want so desperately to get out of! How many times over the past week have you heard these words declared by yourself or others? How about that little voice inside your head that keeps holding you back because […]
When You Encounter Conflict – The Introspection: What is it that you are, on the deepest level of yourself, wanting to see about yourself? What is this person or situation bringing to you? What is it that you are avoiding looking at in yourself? Understand, you have called this person or circumstance to serve you […]
What if every person, situation, place and thing were just mirrors of who you are? Could you entertain that possibility? This mindset pushes the limits of self responsibility, causing you to reflect inwardly about what is outwardly being shown to you. What if you saw every aspect of your life as an outward reflection (the […]
Who is responsible for your happiness? How many times have you heard the phrases: “When I get _____ I will be happy” “If you would stop doing ____ I will be happy” “If I can do_____I will be very happy” “When I see ____ I will be very happy” The one common threads in all […]
Karma – What you put out into the world comes back to you. Whether or not we are aware of it, we all have a “Karmic Bank Account”. Some people experience what is called instant Karma . . . when we see almost immediately the return of the energy we put forward into the world. For […]