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The Pattern –

When we know something will cause us pain or misery, but we do it all the same, we resist the message from our higher self.

At some point in your life, you notice that you have created patterns; the same things that come up time and time again in your life and you recognize that you have been “here” before.  You may experience pain, loss and discomfort when you are in that pattern. You may pay attention to those feelings for a little while, then dismiss them when the next “distraction” comes along.  Surely that next distraction will lead you into the same pattern, and when you get there again and again and again you cannot help but know that something has to change.

But does it?

Our patterns are programmed deep within us like a tape recording that plays over and over . . . we know what’s coming, we’ve been here before, we continue to allow it to happen.

Our first obstruction is our belief that “things happen to us” we are a product of circumstances, not the author of our path.

Self-responsibility is the key to unlock us from this bondage, but we disregard it time and time again.

We will actually stay in a painful spin cycle:

• because it is familiar
• because we know what to expect
• because we fear change
• because it is overwhelming to consider stepping out of our programmed patterns

The patterns remain intact because they are symptoms of something deeper that we are unaware of or are unwilling to uncover.

Generally speaking, our conditioning is:

• to look good
• to sound good
• to “play the part”
• to keep that ego going strong

That ego which hides our pain and shrouds our darkness. That part of us we are so trained to not allow anyone to see.

So the pattern continues!

We exert a tenfold effort to continue to hide our Authentic Self; that freedom which is like a child waiting to come forth allowing us to “be”.

What will it take for you to break out of the patterns that no longer serve you?

What can you do when you have come to the point where you recognize that things must change and ultimately, you must change?

Discover the process to Interrupt Your Pattern